Carol and I (Kim) are experiencing our seventh anniversary of Kristin's passing. Even though we are very aware of where she is, the pain of losing her and missing her still stays with us every day. She actually went Home on the 22nd, but she fell into a coma on the 18th, so it is tough on these four days. However, God is merciful. He has allowed us to create and distribute Kristin tracts throughout the world. We believe the number sent is over 250,000, but we don't have an exact figure. We get emails that attest to people getting saved. Amazing!
I can't imagine a better way for the Lord to use what happened to reach people in His name. We are truly blessed. Kristin was not a famous person, but she didn't need to be famous to have a good testimony before God. I 'm sure she's pleased with the outcome. I hope the Lord is keeping her updated on the tracts. That would be really cool.
I worked for a company that had me traveling to south Florida each Monday and returning on Thursday. Landing in Fort Lauderdale, renting a car and getting started by 8:00 each Monday was the routine. I tried to witness to folks when people were available, but i couldn't mix witnessing with business, so I tried to catch people when I could. while driving down one of the very busy streets one day, I noticed three young boys sitting in front of a convenience store, just leaning against the front wall. I turned the car around and pulled up in front of them. I had several Gideon testaments with me and I opened one to the back pages. That's where scriptures are located and a plan of salvation. I told them that I wanted to give them these little Bibles and they were eager to take them. As I opened one of them and began to read the scriptures, they didn't stop me and were very attentive. At the end I asked if the sample prayer expressed the desire of their hearts. I asked each one individually. They all said yes. Each prayed the prayer and appeared sincere. Their countenance changed right there. They were truant from school and I encouraged them to get back to school and try it with Jesus this time. They assured me they would.
As I drove away, I thought about what God had just done. I really don't like witnessing to just everyone unless I'm passing out tracts in large numbers. For one on one witnessing, I like to just wait on a set-up from the Holy Spirit. That's what happened here. I was compelled to turn the car around. Every time I have heeded the call to witness someone gets saved. I have resisted much more often than complied. What a shame. It's probable that people who would like to witness don't do it because nothing happens. I'm convinced that they need to wait but also heed the call to witness when it happens. God prepares hearts though many methods and will use you if you wish, but you must be willing and pay attention. You know what I'm talking about. Remember what God told His prophets and Jesus' disciples including the Apostle Paul. He protected them and He will do the same for you. It can be scary, but say those first few words and the fear will melt away.
Carol and I just went on a business trip to Hollywood, CA. What an experience. Carol loved the side trip we took to Thousand Oaks to visit Reagan's Presidential museum. Those few days were quite pleasant, but Hollywood was not at all impressive for me. I would rather put up with the mosquitoes in Florida than the people on Hollywood Boulevard. What a mess. Sodom comes to mind. When I left, I felt compelled to not look back for fear that God would turn me into a pillar of salt. For some reason, I didn't feel compelled to even give people tracts. It seemed wasteful. When leaving Hollywood, it wasn't so bad. People quite readily accept the Kristin tract. Someone recently asked how many have been printed so far in the seven years that we have been producing them. I actually stopped keeping a strict count of the numbers. I think around 300,000, but I'm sure the Lord knows the exact count.
I have had the pleasure and privilege of leading people to Christ for over 40 years and it never gets old. I remember a home I visited on a business matter. The gentleman was 72. I didn't ask his wife's age. When business concluded around 8:00 PM, I decided to witness to him. His wife was saved. She was very talky and kept interrupting. She was just extremely concerned for his soul. I quoted Revelation 3:20, knowing that is a fellowship verse, but i've often used it to witness effectively. He sat in his recliner and said nothing, but didn't object. He just sat there, not moving. I told him that Jesus was knocking and that uncomfortable feeling he was having was the conviction of the Holy Spirit of God. He just sat there. I quoted it again, and again. I must have quoted that scripture a half dozen times, asking him to give in. His wife interrupted again and I asked her to get me a cup of coffee. She left us alone. I quoted the verse again and he reached for my hand. I was sitting on the ottoman in front of him with my Bible, showing him the verse as I quoted it. He pulled me off the ottoman onto my knees as he joined me and just began to cry. He prayed a wonderful prayer without my help, asking God to save him through His Son's death, burial and resurrection. He asked that Jesus blood would cover his sins. He knew his stuff. After all, his wife mentioned that he had been going to church for over fifty years and the preachers had been witnessing to him also. This was his moment and I got to be there when it happened. After explaining how he should go forward in a profession of faith at his church, his wife bounded into the room dancing like a school girl praising the Lord and crying, "he never done that before. Praise the Lord, Praise the Lord" What a great time we had and I couldn't get in a word. He just opened up and kept me there. He wouldn't let me leave. It was after ten and he followed me down the driveway assuring me that he would call his preacher with the good news and he would follow up at church.
I'm glad I didn't assume he was saved. I'm glad God gave me the boldness to witness to this old fellow. I'm sure he's been in heaven for years now and has met Kristin.
There are no experiences that beat this. I'll give you some more stories equally as amazing. Remember that I am not a people person. I just believe that, even though I am nervous and shy about witnessing, God will do all of the work. I just show them scripture.
A phone call came in the other day that was interesting. The brother on the line was inquiring after a phone number. After the conclusion of that matter the discussion turned to street preaching. While I have preached on the street on a few occasions, I was never really comfortable with it. Lot's of reactions. Some were cordial. Some were combative, even physically threatening. Some Christians were supportive and some were critical. The numerous times that I just went handing out tracts, the experience was much different. When I have offered tracts, they either take them or reject them. All very politely. I've never had anyone upset with me for offering, as long as I didn't mention that they were going to Hell. Some may say that we need to tell them even if they don't want to hear it. I disagree. I have had the privilege of leading people to Christ and they all were prepared before I arrived on the scene. The Holy Spirit preceded my witness and the ground was fertile. Easy does it works quite well. Getting in the way of God's preparation doesn't seem to work for me. Having said that, I do believe that we won't see fruit unless we actually go out to the harvest. I can't harvest while sitting on the porch.
Have you ever had a kid or grandkid who just seemed to take everything you did for them for granted? I have noticed that our grand children have a great time before and after church in the auditorium running around seeing their friends. I can barely get their attention, much less a hug. It doesn't seem to be that way when they spend personal time with us away from the distractions of friends, games, or play. They will even talk to us on a personal level, about school, difficulty with peers, sports activities, and spiritual topics. So, the closer we are, the more we fellowship. I have also observed that when they have more distractions that are created by the world outside church, the more they focus on the distractions. Hmmmm. Sound familiar? Have you ever considered that maybe a lack of fellowship with the Lord is due to unconfessed and unrepentant
sin ? If you have considered witnessing to others or handing out tracts but have not been consistent, it's likely your fellowship suffers from the same inconsistency.
Isn't it time to get back to Him? Isn't He worth it? I have had to turn off the television, radio in the car (including talk shows), music (except some select Christian music) and just be quiet. The Lord doesn't fellowship with me when I am distracted by the world around me. He wants my attention. He's also giving out some grace with my work, family and ministry work in the nursing home. Good benefits of fellowship, but I am looking forward to my turn at the Judgement Seat of Christ. That's where my eternal rewards will be given.
I have noticed that when I am compelled to give someone a tract, one had better be handy. We actually considered that when we designed the tract over six years ago. It fits nicely in a shirt pocket or a side pocket of a purse. opportunities to give someone a tract often come suddenly and without warning. In line at a checkout, walking into opposite foot traffic are common. always having a few tracts in your pocket or purse allows you ample opportunity to impulsively give someone a tract. If you don't have one, well you know. It's really easy to give out a tract a day with the always ready method. Planning to give tracts is difficult and elusive, but just being ready is really easy. Remember to put two in your shirt pocket every day. in one year you will give out over 700 tracts. Wow!!!!
Carey is our oldest daughter. She is also Kristin's oldest sister. She is mentally handicapped and has tested an IQ of under 70. This morning she accompanied me to our weekly nursing home ministry service where she sings with other church members for the residents of the nursing home. She really enjoys it.
We stopped at a convenience store on the way to buy a cup of coffee for each of us. As we were getting back in the car, Carey remembered that she didn't give the register attendant a tract. She grabbed two. After she gave the lady a tract, she was exiting the store and a man was entering at the same time. Carey held out the second tract and he took it. When Carey got into the car I asked her what she said to him to get him to take the tract. She said, " I didn't say anything. I just handed it to him. Now it's his problem". As I laughed at her candor, I thought about how simple that was.
Get some tracts. Trust the Lord. He will do the hard part.
I recently ran across an article so vile and so subtle that I had to write about it do emphasize why we must reach as many for Christ as possible. Our children and grandchildren are being attacked at the lowest ages ever. My wife Carol, always wanted a Barbie doll when she was very little. There wasn't anything that was more exciting than getting her very own Barbie doll and a bunch of outfits. Then, along came the Ken doll which setup todays latest installment into the destruction of young people.
There's a new line up with Mattel's Ken doll. Little girls can now get a doll that shows the real diversity of our country today. There are 14 options and even more with a little imagination, which many little girls have. That means that they can play with a "male" doll that wears female clothes, and makeup. They have different body types and sizes. Of course, the hairstyles are also included. So, if you are into indoctrinating little girls and probably little boys, too. This is an opportunity to do so. As a true born again believer, I must call this out. This website has always tried to stay above the fray, but this is too much to ignore. Here's the article. I won't repost it on this website because I don't want this vile information here for people to fight over. I won't even link it. If you wish to read it, copy and paste the URL . https://www.aol.com/article/lifestyle/2017/06/20/mattel-ken-barbie-diversity/22491884/
Parents beware! Who does your daughter play with and where does she sleep over? It's possible that many households will have these dolls in the four year old's bedroom.
I write articles for an online website called thinkadvisor.com. It supports financial advisors. My articles are usually about prospecting for clients, but I took a chance with my last article and wrote about the challenges of losing a child and how that relates to being motivated to continue life as normal. I received some great comments and some were about Jesus Christ. That article proved that when discussing our faith with respect for the hearer, many are still receptive.
Many of you are struggling with issues of life. You may have experienced divorce, financial collapse, health emergencies, kid problems, grandkid problems or any other kind of emotional and physically draining catastrophes. It's OK. I am a goal oriented, ambitious person and losing Kristin drained me of all of that. I had to function for about an hour at a time. I refused to plan further than that. Looking too far ahead paralyzed me and I simply became dysfunctional. I've never dealt with any type of drugs including alcohol but I grew up in an alcoholic household. I pent may nights at an alcoholics meeting. I've heard the concept of narrowing your focus to the shortest time frame that is manageable. A goal that can be accomplished may be even minutes. You will naturally expand in time, but that's not the goal. 'Take therefore no thought for the morrow: for the morrow shall take thought for the things of itself. Sufficient unto the day is the evil thereof", Matthew 6:34
The Lord himself admonishes us to stay in now. Later will be cared for. i like to accomplish something every day even if it's trimming the bushes. That only takes about an hour and I'm away from people. People expect more from you than Jesus does. Live with His expectations. After all you are His and He won't mistreat His own.
There are many books, articles and pamphlets written on witnessing. Of course, the best book on witnessing is the Bible itself. Paul, under the inspiration of the Holy Ghost, demonstrates examples of witnessing. Most of us became Christians as a result of Paul's work. This article’s instructions should not be used instead of what Paul taught us. It is merely one of many ways to witness effectively.
The “Kristin” tract is not unique in actual format. The emphasis is on a story about how and why one girl admitted her sinful state, believed on the Lord Jesus Christ, and confessed Him as Savior based on the shedding of His blood, and His death, burial and resurrection. The scriptures in the tract state clearly God's position on sin and his remedy. The sample prayer is just that, a sample. If that prayer expresses the desire of any individual to be saved, I believe it is appropriate strictly based not on words but the expressed, sincere desire of the individual soul.
The “Kristin” tract has proven its effectiveness in several ways. It is effective by simply giving it to someone. It may be effective by leaving it in places where people might pick it up to read. It may also be effective as a personal witnessing tool. As a distribution piece, you may simply hand it to someone, anywhere, under almost any circumstances. Examples are; in line at checkout either to consumers or cashiers; on public transportation such as buses or planes or airports; at public events like ballgames, festivals, swap meets, garage sales; in stores or shopping centers or malls; at resorts or vacation venues. Any place where you cross paths with people is suitable for handing someone a tract. We have received correspondence by email from people who have trusted Christ, were moved to improve their fellowship, or sent words of encouragement and prayer, or just inspired. All of these decisions happened just by giving someone a tract. Actually, there is no need to even speak to the recipient. Just hold the tract in one hand showing them the picture on the front and most people will take it and won't throw it away. I don't like to tell them what's inside because I prefer that they read the story.
The whole point of a Christian story is to lead them to the scriptures. The Holy Spirit will use his word to accomplish salvation. We are only the means of transportation of the gospel message. We have no power in the transaction.
My friend, Jackie, was a letter carrier. She had no idea what was in the envelope. Even a postcard is delivered without reading it or explaining it to the recipient. That's a messenger. We are messengers when it comes to witnessing. God lets us get in on the blessing of reaching the lost for His glory. If, in fact you have an opportunity to actually present the message in the tract, there is a simple and effective way to do that without feeling inadequate or intimidated. Remember, we should keep ourselves out of the message as much as possible. People are not impressed with us hypocritical Christians. There is no such person as a Christian who is not a hypocrite. We are saved sinners, but sinners still. It's easy for a lost person to have little respect for Christians, but not for God and his word. When witnessing with the tract or any other literature, you should use something that has scripture that is pertinent to the salvation message.
I try to allow time for them to read the story without my comments so they will be prepared to hear the gospel. They will sometimes comment on the story. They may comment that the story is a sad one. That gives me the opportunity to read the rest of the tract to them, slowly and deliberately. I just say “yes, it is sad, but it has a wonderful ending. I don't ask for their opinion on the scripture. That has no bearing on the task at hand. If they have a comment or have questions I simply nod and keep reading. When I get to the prayer, I ask them "Would God lie to you?" They always say no. Then I read the prayer slowly and deliberately, so that they can think about what I'm reading. At the end of reading I ask, "Does this prayer express the desire of your heart?" If they say yes, then I ask them to pray the prayer out loud, to God. When they do, I congratulate them and move to the last page of the tract for assurance verses. If at all possible and practical I like to invite them to church. Possibly, they will be brave and make their decision public. Hopefully they will attend church and grow in their Christian walk. If I am out of town, it may not be possible to recommend a church. I might ask for their email address so that I can send information on an appropriate church. I may even feel comfortable contacting someone at that church to follow up. If they live in my home town, of course it would be appropriate to invite them to my church.
The “Kristin” tract holds no magical charm. There are many tracts that are very effective at gaining someone’s attention and holding it long enough to understand and receive the message of salvation.
Although I have never met Paul, the apostle, I feel a real debt of gratitude for his willingness to spread the gospel even under the worst of circumstances. It could be that he witnessed to a prison guard who passed it along to me through many generations of faithful witnesses. I am eternally indebted to each one who didn’t fail to pass it on.
I recently received correspondence from a young man in India named Jesse. His parents were visiting America and found a Bible in a Wal-Mart store. They took the Bible back to India and gave it to Jesse. He opened the pages to find a small yellow piece of paper tucked inside. Jesse wrote that as he read the Kristin tract, he was convicted of his sins and prayed to receive Christ. He found those same scriptures in his Bible and began his new journey with his new Bible.
Jesse’s story reminds me that God still allows us to “get in” on His blessings by giving us witnessing opportunities.
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